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How to fall in love all over again!

Our romantic relationships have the potential to bring us great happiness but can also be the source of great pain and suffering.

At the start of a relationship we fall ‘head over heals’ in love and it seems that our dream has come true. Unfortunately these joyous feelings can fade and then we struggle to feel love for our partner.

So how can we re-discover those wonderful feelings that we experienced at the start of the relationships?

Here are ten things you can do that will improve your relationship and will allow you to fall in love with your partner all over again!

1. Relationship difficulties may be painful but they represent the best chance you and your partner have to heal your insecurities and build a better relationship. Within each problem is an issue that both of you have, that is driving you apart – try to see problems as opportunities for improving the relationship. The trick is to find out what the emotional issue is at the heart of the problem.

2. Whenever you feel emotional pain in a relationship, resist the temptation to move away from your partner. This is the very time you need each other. Take courage and move towards your partner both physically and emotionally.

3. Communication about feelings and fears is what heals relationships. Always make this your objective. Try to find out what your partner is feeling. Expressing your own feelings with honesty and sensitivity will encourage your partner to do the same. Remember even bad behaviour is a form of communication!

4. Nobody can make you feeling anything that you are not already feeling subconsciously. It is hidden and unhealed emotional pain that is triggered by your partner’s behaviour. Be willing to gain emotional awareness, take responsibility and heal these insecurities. As Ghandi said: ‘be the change you want to see in the world” – the same applies in our relationships.

5. Appreciate your partner for all their strengths, gifts and beauty – tell them and show them how much you love them. This is what you did when you fell in love with them, and it will work throughout your relationship. There is no reason that the ‘Honeymoon’ stage of a relationship cannot last forever.

6. If you feel let down by your partner or feel that they are not giving you something important in the relationship, give them exactly the thing you are lacking. Almost magically they will then give you the same thing back!

7. Sex can be a beautiful celebration of love in a relationship – this is why we call it making love! Allow sex to move from a purely physical experience to one that is full of shared emotion – pour love into your partner as you have sex and make strong eye contact. If you have a spiritual belief, you can take sex to the highest Tantric level of physical, emotional and spiritual connection, where it feel like you become one with your partner.

8. If you have had a row, apologise for any of your own bad behaviour and recognise that your partner will also be feeling bad. Move towards them, forgive and re-connect as soon as you can. Start the meaningful communication about what lies at the heart of the argument.

9. If you are having really big problems in your relationship and you believe in a higher or spiritual power, then ask for help and guidance. In this way you will find the inspiration to work through the most tragic or painful situations. If you do not have a spiritual or religious belief, ask for help from your higher or intuitive mind.

10. Relationships fail because we allow a distance to appear between us and our partner. What we give in a relationship is what we receive. How much are you unconditionally giving to your partner? Give to your partner without any expectation of receiving and you will soon find that the joy and love returns to the relationship.

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How to find out if he is interested in you?

This is a common situation. You know many men. Some of them are friends. Out of them one wants to be more than a friend with you.

But he does not know how to tell you that? Are there any signs that will tell you that he is interested in you?

Let us try to find out.

Friends always talk to each other freely. They laugh, make fun of each other and occasionally speak with each other in not a very civil way.

If that man is interested in you, he will do none of this. Forget talking freely, he will find it difficult to speak to you. You will sometimes catch him looking at you intently, but as soon as you turn towards him, he will turn away.

He would never make it obvious that he was watching you. If any time some body makes fun of you, you will find everybody joining the fun, but not this man.

He would rather look at the fun maker with anger. If any time you knock yourself against any object, others may ignore that, but not your hero. He will surely come and ask you if he can help.

Being in love and being a friend are two different things. Friendship is devoid of romantic love. There is no place for passion in friendship. Friends share everything without any need of protection. Friends are not bothered if they show their wilder side to other friends. Rather they love that. Friends don’t talk with each other in hushed tone and never feel shy of each other. Friends don’t care about what they wear amongst friends. Friends are more like a group of like – minded people who enjoy each other’s togetherness and behave more like siblings.

Romantic love stands at the other extreme. You will never catch a lover wearing something that can be commented upon negatively. A romantic lover does everything with a single objective – please his/her beloved. You will not find a romantic lover speaking the way friends do. Romantic lovers are not very open with each other and feel shy of each other’s presence. The flies in the stomach of a romantic lover when he/she looks at the beloved make all the difference.

Now you know what signs to look for in a friend and find out if he thinks of you as a friend or his object of love.

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What Men Want?

Here is an entry from a guy is still single. I quite admire him; usually your responses to questions will tell a lot about your character. This guy is, in my own opinion, very clear about what he wants in his relationship, and you can tell it from his feedback here. To all women out there who have been hurt by men before, guys are scared of being hurt too! And men do look for women who are not afraid to say what they truly want!

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

I want to have a relationship where Me and my partner can live life together and look at the positives in being together and working to strengthen it to the fullest. I would also like to have a woman that secures my thoughts about trust and wants to be with me for who I am.

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your Mate.

I want a woman who likes the smaller things in life and takes it as a token of my love and also can except bigger things at times but yet realises that the smaller things are more generous and thoughtful. I need a woman who likes to be romanced the odd time and wants to share her romance with me as well.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

I would like a wouman who likes to experiment with sex and is spontaneous and at times likes to take control. I need a woman who isn’t afraid to say what she wants, when and how she wants to have sex.

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

What I look in a soulmate is a woman who is understanding and is a hard worker but sees that it takes two to make any relationship work. A trusting mate and a very king hearted woman is what I am looking for.

5) What turns you on?

A woman who is gentle but yet isn’t afraid to ask or say what she wants. Nice eyes a nice ass and a desent set of tits are always nice.

6) What kind of woman turns you off?

A girl that fakes an orgasm I beleive in truth and I can handle the truth a woman who doesn’t know what she wants.

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your mate?

There is nothing, since the past year, that i have not shared with my wife. I only wish that her memory of our life together was accurate and not colored by her current moods and behaviours. What is so difficult is that woman say what they want and find someone like that than get confused and end up going to somone that doesn’t treat them as good as the other. My biggest problem is trusting someone and getting scared of being hurt again, I also tend to fall to fast and do everything I can for that person and it seems to scare them away.

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Surprise me for no special reason!

Here’s a detailed entry from a female reader. Most women look for men who can spend time with them lovinly and willingly, and all the little thing count! To get the woman of your dreams, surprise them for no special reason!

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?
I need and want love, commitment, honesty, appreciation, respect, unity, understanding, forgiveness, unconditional love, dedication, support, quality time, romance

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

I want my man to surprise me for no special reason (like not because it is Valentines Day or my birthday but just because he is thinking of me and genuinely cares for me). I want my man to spend time with me lovingly and willingly. I want him to appreciate me and to be grateful for me. I want him to understand that I may disagree with some of the things he does and says but it is ok. That just makes me an individual. I want him to respect me, love me, honor me and just be devoted to me.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

I need my man to let me know that he is “King”. But at the same time let me take charge some too. I want him to caress my body, kiss me all over, run his fingers through my hair, whisper in my ear and just be gentle with me at times.

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

I look for someone who is attractive, who physically fits what I like in a man but is beautiful on the inside too. I like a little arrogance and lots of confidence. I like a man who is a man that takes charge and handles things and treats me like a lady.

5) What turns you on?

A man that knows just what to say and how to say but is being sincere and not just running a line on me, a man that is in touch with his feelings and expresses his gentle side two me.

6) What turns you off?

a liar, a player, a thief, a man that tries to manipulate me and tries to be an opportunist.

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

I tell my partner everything about me…not on the first date but as we get to know each other because I need to know if we are compatible.

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Trust and Faith

This is an entry from a woman who is still single.

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

He must be honest, fat is nothing wrong, inner beauty more important. Please don’t cheat on me, cut off all connection with your fling,ex girl friend. I need to feel secure, that you are faithful to me. Show me your love. Tell me you love me.

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your partner?

I want him to remember our special occasion, I want t have sex every night. I want him to be loyal, not afraid to tell me he love me. Be more patient, honest…

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

Pleasure me rather than pleasure yourself, is about foreplay.. variety…

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

I can be who am I in front of him, smile the way I want, eat the way  I want..I can share with him everything, and he be patient to hear me out. I must feel very comfortable with him..he must be loyal and faithful to me…love me more than I love him.

5) What turns you on?

The way he kisses me

6) What turns you off?

His smell

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your partner?

He should improve his bed room skill

What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

To trust him, once cheated always a cheater. He has many female friends, he is hot tempered.. he is very ego and afraid to show his emotion. I have been cheated before, therfore I find it hard to trust a guy anymore. I feel very insecure, suspicious, and sensitive all the time.

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“How to win your lover back using ONLY proven strategies for a long lasting, permanent results!” Get your FREE Video tutorials worth over US$67! You can save your relationship TODAY! Absolutely no manipulation tricks involved!!!

“How to stop a divorce and stop your breakups!” Proven blueprint used by millions of users from ALL the world over! Read the RAVING REVIEWS!

“Know what women want today!” Discover what your girlfriend or wife secretly wish you knew about sex, romance and relationships! Required reading for EVERY guy who loves his girlfriend! It’s not 1, not 2, but 500 secrets that you can get your hands on today, compiled together for your easy and quick reference! Get your FREE Videos and book worth over $97!!!

“Know what men want today!” Discover what your boyfriend or husband secretly wish you knew about sex, dating, romance and relationship, but will NEVER ever tell you to your face! Discover how you can easily attract the guy you like and grow his love for you! It’s not 1, not 2, but 500 secrets that you can get your hands on today, compiled together for your easy and quick reference! Get your FREE Videos and book worth over $97!!! This is required reading for every girls who love her guy!

If you want to attract love into your life and find your Mr/Mrs Right, get your FREE Videos tutorials worth over US$67!!

Find out what your future has in store for you! I’ve learnt so much about myself and my lover just from these AMAZINGLY accurate and insightful destiny reports! Get your free destiny readings today! (Value >$49!!!)