Unconditional Love

In todays time, writing letter to your special someone is not famous anymore. Cellphones and computers are created in this generation and it is just easy to communicate with your special someone. Its not that hard like during the old times. They would find ways to communicate because phones and computers are not used at that time. They would only depend on papers and pencil just to write and tell the one they like how they feel. If they want to see that person, they would go to their houses and visit them. Not like today when video chatting are made for easy communication.

It is really different in todays generation than before. Its much harder before than what we have now. Its more high tech and that is what makes it easier. But in todays generation it would be much more attractive to write letters with your special someone even if there are only few people doing it. Its much more better to express they feelings when writing letter. And boys should always be the first one to do this. Its normal when girls make the first move but its much more better if boys do it.

Sending mails still exist in todays generation so why no try it? It might be old school but it can be worth keeping. E-mails and messages in text can easily be deleted but when you write letters. It can be worth treasuring it. You can read it from time to time and keep it in your safe or secret place. That is why there are more better writers before because they are more into writing and they have great imagination at things. They can tell more of what they feel and show what they really want.

Its not that todays generation is bad, but you would know that someone really likes you from what he shows. He would do anything just to see you and write anything just to tell that person they like how they feel. They are more to actions than words. Even from just telling their love one how they feel, they would go the whole night just to write that special letter for their special someone. Even if its not that famous in todays generation, why not try it? It is simple yet amazing to do. There is no harm in trying, so grab a paper and write everything that you feel. Make sure it is sincere and true.

So you have that special person in your life, and he just can’t stop staring at you. Some girls find this annoying and awkward but most girls find this cute. That moment when he just look at you and smile for no reason. Why do girls find this annoying? Girls can be really conscious at times especially to the guy they like. Girls might think that they have something in their face or they did something that is funny and embarrassing.

Guys who really like girls can stop but stare. They just look at their partner and think how beautiful they are and he is lucky enough to have someone extraordinary in their life. It can be really imaginative and unbelievable so that is why sometimes they just stare.

So if you are a girl reading this, just take it as a compliment when your guy keeps staring at you and smile for no reason. Laughing and smiling are whole different thing. You can even ask them about it and most responses would be “Cant stop looking at your gorgeous face.” It is like staring at your crush whenever they come by right at you. Your heart just can’t stop pounding and you will feel butterflies in your stomach.

It might be hard to believe but guys are easily appreciated. They appreciate little things for girls, but its already big for them. Most guys who are serious in a relationship are not that materialistic. Because if they were, they would want to have a relationship with things like car, computer, money, or watches not with girls. They want something more other than junk stuff. They want to feel the love of a girl they really like. To be honest, guys are more passionate than girls. They are the ones who is sometimes keeping the relationship safe because they are the ones controlling it. They are more afraid in committing mistakes because they’re partner might get disappointed with him.

You might find it a little bit of annoying when your partner keeps on staring at you. Don’t be too conscious like you have a dirt on your face because if you do, they would eventually just tell you right away. Maybe its just impossible for them to believe that they have you in their lives and he just want to believe it in his own eyes.

Message: Peter and Tina are sitting in the park doing nothing, but just gazig into the sky, while all their friends are having fun with their beloved half.
Tina: I’m so bored. Just wish I have a boyfriend now to spend time with.
Peter: I guess we’re the only leftovers. We’re the only person who isn’t with a date now.
(both sigh n silence for a while)
Tina: I think I have a good idea. Lets play a game
Peter: Eh? What game?
Tina: Eem..It’s quite simple. You be my boyfriend for 100 days and I’ll be your girlfriend for 100 days. what do you think?
Peter: Oookay..Anyway I don’t have any plan for the next few months.
Tina: You sound like you aren’t looking forward to it at all. Cheer up. Today will be our first day and our first date. Where should we go?
Peter: What about a movie? I heard that there is a really great movie in theater now.
Tina: Seems like I don’t have any better idea than this. Lets move. (went to watch their movies and sent each other home)

Day 2:
Peter and Tina went to a concert together, and Peter bought Tina a keychain with a star.

Day 3:
They went shopping together for a friend’s birthday present. Share an ice-cream together and hugged each other for the first time.

Day 7:

Peter drove Tina up onto a mountain and they watch the sunset together. When the night came and the moon glowed, they said sat on the grass gazing at the stars together. A meteor passed by. Tina mumbled something.

Day 25:
Spend time at a themepark and got onto rollercoasters, and ate hotdogs and cotton candy. Peter and Tina got in the haunted house and Tina grabbed someone’s hand instead of Peter’s hand by accident. They laughed together
for a while.

Day 67:
They drove pass a circus and decided to get in to watch the show. The midget asked Tina to play a part as his assistant in the magic show. Went around to see other entertainments around after the show. Came to a fortune teller and she just said “Treasure every moment from now on” and a tear rolled down the fortune teller’s cheek.

Day 84:
Tina suggested that they go to the beach. The beach wasn’t so crowded that day. They have their first kiss with each other just as the sun is setting.

Day 99:
They decided to have a simple day and is deciding to have a walk around the city. They sits down onto a bench.

1:23 pm
Tina: I’m thirsty. Lets rest for a while first.
Peter: Wait here while I go buy some drinks. What would you like?
Tina: Eem…Apple juice will be just fine.

1:43 pm
Tina waiting for about 20 minutes and Peter havent return. Then someone walked up to her.
Stranger: Is your name Tina?
Tina: Yes, and may I help you?
Stranger: Just now down there on the street a drunk driver has crashed into a guy. I think its your friend.
Tina ran over to the spot with the stranger and sees Peter lying on the floor with blood over his face and her apple juice still in his hands. The ambulance came and she went to the hospital with Peter. Tina sat outside the emergency room for five and a half hours. The doctor came out, and he sigh.

11:51 pm
Doctor: I’m sorry, but we did the best we could. He is still breathing now but God would take him away from us very soon. We found this letter inside his pocket.

The doctor hands over the letter to Tina and she goes into the room to see Peter. He look weak but peaceful. Tina read the letter and then she burst into tears. Here is what the letter said.

Tina,
Our 100 days is almost over. I had fun with you during all these days. Although you may be greedy sometimes and less thoughtful, but these all brought happiness into my life. I have realize that you are a really cute girl and blamed myself for never taken the time to knowing that. I have nothing much to ask for, but I just wish that we can extend the day. I want to be your boyfriend forever and wish that you can be beside me all the time. Tina, I love you.

11:58
Tina: (sobbing) Peter. Did you know what was the wish I made on the night there was a meteor. I asked God to let us last forever. We were suppose to last 1
0 days so Peter! You can’t leave me! I LOVE YOU, but can you come back to
me now? I love you Peter. I LOVE YOU.

As the clock struck twelve, Peter’s heart stopped beating. It was 100 days.

If you are in a relationship, it may come to the point where someone might not be favored with your relationship with your special someone. Even if you just started dating, there would always be that someone who would interfere with your relationship. But who are these people or person?

Parents: Its normal when your parents wont agree with who you are dating especially to girls. Girls are more to be protected by parents than guys. There are some expectations that your parents are looking forward in your future relationship. To girls, they want them to have a decent guy that can provide the needs and wants of their daughter. Like any others, they would want someone to take good care of their daughter and someone that would love and cherish her forever. And to guys, they want them to have a classy girl that would always return the love their son needs from a girl. Parents are not that picky when it comes to girls for their son. But as long as their child is happy, they would support their child. They might not agree at first but in the end, they would realize that they are not going to decide who their daughter/son be dating with.

Friends: There are also some things that your friends/friend might be expecting for your lover. Ofcourse, friends protect friends, they would not want their friend especially their closest one to get hurt. So it would come to the point when if they know something bad about the person that you are dating, they would always interfere and sometimes even make plans to break you up. They would protect you when it comes to relationship to avoid the pain if they know that who you are dating is not right for you. So friends are normally there to protect you, but like parents, they can’t do anything. They are there to help but not to choose who you want to date.

The others: When i say others, that would mean someone who have special feeling with you or who you are dating. They are the ones who can do bad things with your relationship. They might be the people you hated too, but sometimes they can a friend in which you are not aware of doing bad things with your relationship. They can destroy your relationship and might do everything to kill it.

But no matter what happens, if you and your partner really love each other. No person would succeed in separating you with your special someone. It is part of the trial in your love life that you need to face. You have to fight and prove to everyone that what you and your partner have cannot be bought down by anyone not even your parents and friends.

Customer Service Rep: Can you install LOVE?

Customer: I can do that. I’m not very technical, but I think I am ready to install now. What do I do first?

Customer Service Rep: The first step is to open your HEART. Have you located your HEART ma’am?

Customer: Yes I have, but there are several programs running right now.Is it okay to install while they are running?

Customer Service Rep: What programs are running ma’am?

Customer: Let me see….I have PASTHURT.EXE, LOWESTEEM.EXE, GRUDGE.EXE, and RESENTMENT.COM running right now.

Customer Service Rep: No problem. LOVE will automatically erase PASTHURT.EXE from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory, but it will no longer disrupt other programs. LOVE will eventually overwrite LOWESTEEM.EXE with a module of its own called HIGHESTEEM.EXE. However, you have to completely turn off GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM. Those programs prevent LOVE from being properly installed. Can you turn those off ma’am?

Customer: I don’t know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?

Customer Service Rep: My pleasure. Go to your Start menu and invoke FORGIVENESS.EXE. Do this as many times as necessary until GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM have been completely erased.

Customer: Okay, I’m done. LOVE has started installing itself automatically. Is that normal?

Customer Service Rep: Yes it is. You should receive a message that says it will reinstall for the life of your HEART. Do you see that message?

Customer: Yes I do. Is it completely installed?

Customer Service Rep: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program. You need to begin connecting to other HEARTS in order to get the upgrades.

Customer: Oops…I have an error message already. What should I do?

Customer Service Rep: What does the message say?

Customer: It says “ERROR 412 – PROGRAM NOT RUN ON INTERNAL COMPONENTS”. What does that mean?

Customer Service Rep: Don’t worry ma’am, that’s a common problem. It means that the LOVE program is set up to run on external HEARTS but has not yet been run on your HEART. It is one of those complicated programming things, but in non-technical terms it means you have to “LOVE” your own machine before It can “LOVE”others.

Customer: So what should I do?

Customer Service Rep: Can you find the directory called “SELF-ACCEPTANCE”?

Customer: Yes, I have it.

Customer Service Rep: Excellent, you are getting good at this.

Customer: Thank you.

Customer Service Rep: You’re welcome. Click on the following files and then copy them to the “MYHEART” directory: FORGIVESELF.DOC, SELFESTEEM.TXT, EALIZEWORTH.TXT, and GOODNESS.DOC. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching any faulty programming. Also, you need to delete SELFCRITIC.EXE from all directories, and then empty your recycle bin afterwards to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back.

Customer: Got it. Hey! My HEART is filling up with really neat files. SMILE.MPG is playing on my monitor right now and it shows that WARMTH.COM, PEACE.EXE, and CONTENTMENT.COM are copying themselves all over my HEART!

Customer Service Rep: Then LOVE is installed and running. You should be able to handle it from here. One more thing before I go…

Customer: Yes?

Customer Service Rep: LOVE is freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everybody you meet. They will in turn share it with other people and they will return some really neat modules back to you.

Customer: I will. Thank you for your help.

Being alone together with your lover is one of the rituals you need to do when you are in a relationship. Its a must to be together from time to time. And since you enter yourself to commit with someone, its normal when your lover wants to see you everyday or anytime if you are vacant. But sometimes, there are lovers who are very needy. Like how or what kind of needy?

The kind of needy when even if you don’t have time to go out, or have time to spend with them. They just force you until it would reach to the point when they threatened you to end your relationship. Reason are, you don’t have time with them anymore and you never prioritize them.

Well, its normal to feel this way. At least you know that someone is making effort to see you. Not like ay lover who doesn’t care at all. Both sides should be taken seriously, its not normal for someone not to prioritize their relationship, and its also not normal to be so needy and over protective with their relationship. Both should act fairly and maturely when it comes to this situation. If the reason of the partner that he/she was busy because of their work. Then one should understand that sometimes we need to focus on our career too. But too much focus can affect your relationship. If you want to keep your career more than your relationship, then why are you in a relationship? You can’t keep both if you act selfish and depends on how understanding your partner is.

Things like this happens in a relationship, its might not be easy but its the way it is. Being in a relationship is hard and sometimes it can be really complicated. But when all things are well, you and your partner are just happy being together. Nothing or no one can separate you, not even time. So learn how to understand each others needs, and know what each of you want. Because the most important in a relationship is time and sometimes even time can keep you apart. But not even time can stop your love to that special person in your life.

So you are single? But that doesn’t mean you don’t have someone that you really like or want to be with. Being single is a choice by you, or maybe you just haven’t found the right one. Either way, being single is not all bad, it doesn’t mean that you are going to be forever alone. Love waits, and time is just there to surpass it and make you wait for that special someone of yours.

You can’t judge a person who is single. They might have been in a recent relationship that really broke them and falling in love to them would be really hard. But don’t torture yourself, if you like someone and you like them back. Don’t hide your feelings and stay single. It hurts more to let someone go because you are too coward to be in a relationship.

There are a lot of advantages and disadvantages of being single. But it only depends on you who is keeping it that way. There are reasons why you are single but that doesn’t mean your heart isn’t taken. Probably, you might even have feelings for your ex lover.

The world might be big, but its not everyday that you fall in love with someone. You might start at stranger at first but it doesn’t mean that you will be strangers forever. Time can be tricky sometimes but its worth the wait.

Hurting is normal and its never permanent, always remember that. Because in whatever you do, you will still remember the things that were very special or the wonderful moments you used to had with your ex partner. Don’t change the reality, just change the possibilities. Don’t forget what you had even if you dot regret how you ended. If you find that right person in the future, then you should also look back in your past and apply it in your future. Special moments are always that one things that sometimes changes us, don’t give it up. Because its our past that always end up what we are right now and what we are going to be in the future. Our mistakes in the past will always be the lesson we are going to keep up in the future.

Don’t be too serious to be single, instead if you really like someone then go for it. Life is short, and time is fast. Live life with love, it is the best feeling in the world.

When you have feelings for someone. It is not easy to forget it once you decided to move past it. Life isn’t easy so as love. Love is the beginning of life, it may be one of the greatest feeling in the whole world and that is why it is never easy to forget it. You may want to move on but who said moving on is easy if you still have feelings for that person?

You want things to be like deleting feelings as easy like deleting messages in your cellphone. It is so easy that it all comes out naturally. You can’t decide or force yourself in who to love, it all happens in a split of second and you are surprise that you keep on thinking about this very person everyday. But in every relationship, there is always an ups and downs. At first everything run so well, but in the end, it is just so hard to understand each other especially if both of you don’t agree a lot even at the most least things that would have cause a fight. That very little things and turns out as an argument can be really frustrating. We all get hurt when we fall in love, even if we end up with them anyway. We also feel pain even if you are still in a running relationship.

Falling in love is the most craziest, strangest, weirdest, but most of all the best feeling a person could ever have felt in his/her life. Its like a collusion of love and hate, for example, you hate them for being late on your first date, but you still love them anyway. All the things that you hate about your partner seems to be the best things you want in them, or would have like from them. Like if they have a habit of kissing you endlessly, or biting your lips at some point, you will miss it. Every bad or good things that happened in your life with your partner would make you miss them. And that is one thing why it is so hard to move on or forget all the feelings that you had with that person.

It may not be easy to forget someone or forget about your feelings. But eventually time heals, it may be a long time but at least you will get there. Don’t waste your time doing nothing and trying to figure out what went wrong. Just live life and everything will just be memories.